Tips-tips untuk hilangkan rasa gementar semasa akad nikah
Bagi seorang Lelaki, ada 3 waktu degup jantungnya berdebar yang amat sangat. Pertama, ketika nak berkhatan. Kedua, ketika lafaz akad nikah.... Dan ketiga, ketika isterinya nak melahirkan anak yang pertama.. Alhamdulillah, dengan sekali lafaz sehaja, saya dapat melalui tempoh debaran yang kedua ini dengan tenang sekali (walaupun bulu roma meremang abes~hahaha).
Dalam suasana meriah dan ceria kadangkala menyebabkan bakal pengantin (bride & groom) menjadi gementar atau nervous apabila mengharungi detik-detik bersejarah ini..
Lafaz akad nikah adalah perkara yang paling penting dan semua pihak memang menunggu saat saat ini... Ada dikalangan rakan rakan pihak laki yg nakal akan menyakat pengantin lelaki semasa pengantin lelaki berhadapan tok kadi ataupun bapa kepada pengantin perempuan... disebabkan semua pihak terlalu fokus dengan lafaz yg bakal diucapkan oleh pengantin lelaki.... ia akan meninmbulkan rasa sangat tidak selesa dan …
Zulaikha...
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die akan dtg blik..
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ai thu...u serabut kan..amatlah srbut..
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skang..tanam dlm diri...
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u ttp kna trema keh...
nnti hasilnya pasti semanis madu..InsyaAllah..
yang pnting..REDHA kan hati mu utk menerima apa jua yg tlah dittpkan olehnya!...;)
*go go girl!!..yeah u can do it!..^_~
During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author.
Here's the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
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